The most insightful and meaningful conversations I’ve had with strangers have usually occurred over a meal. Some of the most memorable include:
- The Russians I met in the Trans-Siberian Railway’s dining car.
- The Cubans I met in a restaurant in Pinar del Rio.
- The Israelis I met in the Kibbutz’s dining hall.
- The Palestinians I met in their homes who always treated me to a delicious meal.
- The Germans I shared a “second breakfast” with on the Camino de Santiago in northern Spain.
- The Egyptians in Cairo with whom I shared my Thanksgiving tradition last November.
The list is endless, but what stands out in my memory are the conversations we had on each occasion. While breaking bread together, we shared, we listened, and we learned from each other.
In this cynical and highly polarized world, I believe there’s a critical need for people-to-people communication and understanding. Eric Maddox, an American I first met in 2012 over a meal at Cafe Riche in downtown Cairo has set the gold standard for how to make this happen with his Virtual Dinner Guest Project.
In 2013, I watched Eric connect Palestinians in Gaza with Native Americans in Oakland by using 21st century technology to recreate an ancient tradition of sharing a meal and conversation with members of our tribe. Now we can share with the “other” on the other side of the planet. Not just a Skype chat but a structured conversation over a meal with the goal of learning about each other directly, not through the mainstream media or social media that often do a better job of playing to our fears and superstition about the “other.” Imagine the possibilities!
Eric explains his latest project.
The Virtual Iftar Project Episode 4: Gaza-Amsterdam
In our final episode we connected youth in Amsterdam and the Gaza Strip for an online dialogue over Iftar (July, 2015) and a collaborative film project between their two communities.
Each vox pop film address a question that each side asked of the other. For the Amsterdam film, our Dutch team seeks an answer to Gaza’s question: “What would you do if you found your community under military occupation?” While the Palestinian side posed the following question to the people of Gaza: “How can the international community best support the people of Gaza?”
The views expressed in each film represent the unfiltered opinions from the streets of each community, and do not necessarily represent the views of our producers. We are a nonpartisan and nonsectarian initiative focussed on breaking facile media and political narratives with truly grassroots collaborative media projects.
The Virtual Iftar Project Gaza-Amsterdam is the last of 4 episodes documenting our road trip across the Balkan Routes and central Europe during Ramadan 2015. Filmmaker Katie Cook, and Producer and project founder Eric Maddox, embarked up this #RamadanRoadtrip, just as the EU refugee crisis was beginning in early summer in order to connect Europeans with young people in Muslim-majority countries for focussed online discussions and collaborative film projects. The aim of the project is to demystify the distorted or sensationalized image of “other” that is so often presented in media narratives and political rhetoric around the world.
Participants on both sides connected for a videoconference call, a discussion of thematic topics, and then parted with one final question posed to each side. And that’s where these films begin.
Watch our previous videos featuring Kosovo, Palestine (Gaza), Germany, and Pakistan on our Facebook page, and please share and support our community-funded project today!
Please watch, listen, and feel the message that young people from Gaza and Amsterdam are sharing with each other and with us. THIS GIVES ME HOPE! And after watching, if you believe this project can make a global shift in how we view the “other” and want to become involved, check it out here.